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When a Crystal Feels “Off” — Is It Still Meant for You?

Have you ever picked up a crystal and felt… sick?

Maybe your body tensed, your stomach churned, or you felt this strange inner “nope” — even though the crystal was so beautiful.

You’re not alone.

A lovely customer recently said to me:

"It (moonstone) makes me feel like I’ve got morning sickness. Even just touching it makes me feel sick — but it’s so pretty and I feel drawn to it for others!"

Then continued to tell me they felt anxious and fearful around Bloodstone, even though they loved the look of it.

I laughed and told them, “Thank you for my next blog post!”

Because this isn’t just odd or woo woo fru fru — it’s real.

It’s what I call an energetic resistance.

✨ What Is an Energetic Mismatch?

Crystals carry specific frequencies.

You do too.

Sometimes, when a crystal’s frequency meets yours, it’s like two puzzle pieces clicking together.

Other times?

It’s more like putting the wrong battery in the wrong device — it won’t work, or worse, it jolts the system.

🔮 My Story: Me vs. Turquoise

I used to have a strong aversion to Turquoise.

Couldn’t touch it. Couldn’t wear it. Couldn’t even be near it. It was like we were magnets with opposite poles — completely repelling each other.

This made no sense at the time.

I love crystals. I work with them daily. I speak their language.

But the resistance was real — and it was loud.

So, I sat with it. I meditated. I asked why.

What came through was powerful:

A memory surfaced from a past life where I worked shamanically in the Americas. I had been exiled from sacred lands. Something had gone wrong in ceremony… I don’t remember the details, only the shame and the energetic exile.

With the help of a mentor, I cleared the karmic imprint — releasing contracts, healing old wounds, and sitting in deep forgiveness with my ancestral soul group.

And Turquoise?

We're friends now. Good ones, in fact.

🌗 When It’s Happening to You

If a crystal makes you feel unwell or unsettled, it doesn’t mean:

• It’s a bad crystal

• You’re too sensitive

• You’re “doing energy wrong”

It may mean:

• The crystal is too strong for your current field

• It’s activating something unprocessed

• Or it’s not the right time yet

And sometimes, it’s simply holding up a spiritual mirror.

👁‍🗨 My Intuitive Thoughts on the Moonstone & Bloodstone

In the recent case of Moonstone, I had the sense that it was reflecting back suppressed connection to natural cycles — maybe a difficulty with true rest, self-recognition, or being in tune with the body’s flow.

Moonstone gently says: "Can you soften, trust, and receive?"

And sometimes, we aren’t ready to answer.

Bloodstone, on the other hand, is deeply tied to Christ Consciousness and clairaudient awakening — a frequency of truth and service. It may feel heavy for those still finding their voice or resisting inner messages.

🌼 Final Words

If this is you — you’re not broken.

In fact, you may just be very spiritually aware, and the crystal is speaking a truth your soul already knows.

Give it space.

Ask it questions.

Don’t force it.

And maybe… come back to it when you're ready.

Who knows — you might find a lifelong friend.

👉 Have a crystal you couldn’t stand, but now love? Or one that still makes you nauseous? You can download my Crystal That Challenge Us guide for FREE

Crystals for Protection – Not What You Might Think

When most people think of crystals for protection, black tourmaline often springs to mind. It’s a powerful ally, no doubt, strengthening your energy field by continuously fortifying the torus field—the spiraling flow of energy that surrounds you. Black tourmaline not only strengthens all layers of your energetic body, but it also deepens your connection to the Earth Star, anchoring you firmly to the Earth and supporting you through this human journey in your current incarnation.

But what if we expanded the conversation beyond just black tourmaline?

The Allies of Protection

• Garnet – This radiant red stone embodies self-empowerment, igniting the inner fire that fuels confidence and resilience.

• Dravite (Brown Tourmaline) – Dravite connects you to the ancient earth caves, grounding you in a primal stability that feels like a deep, earthy embrace.

• Red Jasper – Think of it as your best friend, offering constant encouragement with a gentle hand on your shoulder. Red Jasper connects the Root Chakra to the Earth Star, reinforcing your presence and resilience.

• Amethyst – The violet flame of spiritual protection and purification, amethyst clears non-beneficial addictions and spiritual thought forms. It raises your consciousness and, in my view, carries one of the most important roles in the crystal realm: elevating humanity’s collective awareness.

• Labradorite – This shimmering stone provides psychic shielding when you’re first stepping into the subtle realms, helping you navigate with clarity while you develop your intuition, whether through clairaudience, clairvoyance, clairsentience, or tools like tarot and pendulums.

Each of these crystals contributes to grounding, shielding, and anchoring your energy into the body. They’re the essential toolkit for energy protection, especially when it comes to deflecting unwanted entities or influences. They empower you to stand strong in your authentic self.

Beyond the Usual Protection Stones

When people visit my market stalls in search of protection stones, these are often the first I recommend. However, while these crystals are powerful, they don’t make you invisible to disruptive energies—they strengthen your field, but entities can still “tap, tap, tap” at your boundaries, waiting for a moment of vulnerability.

That’s where Selenite changes the game.

Selenite: The Subtle Shift

Selenite doesn’t just reinforce your outer energy field—it fortifies your hara line. This thin, luminous cord runs through the center of your being, connecting you from the core of the Earth (your Earth Star) all the way to the Source of creation through your Soul Self. By aligning with the frequency of Selenite, your hara line expands, allowing you to stand fully in the Light that connects Earth, Self, and Source.

As you attune more deeply to Selenite, your vibration rises to such a high level that lower vibrations—what I affectionately call the “yuckies”—simply don’t see you. Instead of battling these energies on the metaphorical “bedroom floor,” you elevate to the “bedroom ceiling,” where these lower energies don’t even look.

My Story with Selenite

Before my twins were born in January 2020, I lived solo in a two-bedroom apartment in Coolum Beach, where I taught meditation workshops, facilitated healings, and practiced as a crystal healer. Selenite became my sanctuary. I gridded my entire home—placing it on windowsills, doorframes, room corners, and around the healing bed. I used it in workshops, healings, and channelings. My space became a temple of light, healing, and humility.

Today, as a talisman creator and light language channel, I still embrace the grounding stones. Many of my channelings call for garnet, black tourmaline, dravite, and more to anchor specific frequencies. And I still wholeheartedly recommend them for others on their healing journeys.

But almost every time, I suggest pairing these stones with Selenite.

This humble, luminous gift from the Earth is simple, inexpensive, and profound. For me, Selenite is the crystal that encompasses all-round protection and beyond.

The End Note

In a world of shifting energies and unseen whispers, protection isn’t just about building walls; it’s about rising higher, aligning deeper, and embracing the luminous strength of your soul. Crystals like black tourmaline, garnet, and red jasper offer grounding and shielding—but Selenite invites you to dance in the light, to embody the vibration where lower energies can no longer reach.

May you walk this Earth anchored, radiant, and unseen to the “yuckies,” carried by the crystalline wisdom of the ancients.

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Selenite

Black Tourmaline

Garnet

Red Jasper

Amethyst

Labradorite